Well, I don't give a darn whom I upset, as usual.

That goes double for the twitter mobs, who absolutely do not represent most people in this country.
I don't care what people think they are in terms of gender. Whether I think some of them are just people who are mentally disturbed is a whole other issue. If someone wants to undergo surgery and take hormones to become another sex, and can find a doctor to do it, go ahead. I certainly don't believe in taking away their rights, and they should be treated with respect.
However, one of the operative words here is hormones. They take hormones to change their sex.
If you're in a physical competition like a sport, and want to participate in a woman's competition, and you have male levels of testosterone, you should be disqualified.
I feel about the army the way that I feel about professions like the police forces and firefighters. I absolutely do not believe, and this is after working with female police officers, that the rules should be changed to get more "equality" of numbers. If you want to be a firefighter, you should be able to carry a 200 pound person down the stairs of a burning building. To be in the police, there were always height, weight, fitness requirements (tests) which you had to pass, you should be able to take down a 200 pound man who is resisting arrest, or trying to kill you, run down young, spry people, be a good marksman, and of course pass all the psychological tests. If you can't do it, man or woman, you shouldn't be on the police forces. Watering down the requirements leads to more danger for not only civilians but fellow officers.
Feminist ideology has no business in this. These are areas where reason, logic, and the greater good must prevail.
As for fighting on the front lines, my opinion is the same.